Online Communities

Myspace and other community websites have been making the news lately due to the perceived danger of online predators.  While I personally believe the danger is exaggerated by the Main Stream News, the fact is, there is some danger as proven by a several recent rapes and abductions that were the result of teenagers meeting strangers through these websites.

A parent with common sense would take basic precautions with their child, especially since teenagers, as a rule, seem to lack basic common sense.  If it were up to me, I’d implement these rules:

  1. No discussion of drug and alcohol abuse.
  2. No discussion of sexual promiscuity.
  3. No foul language
  4. No exchanging messages with strangers or adding strangers as friends.
  5. No posting or messaging personal information such as real name, address, or phone number.
  6. No posting or messaging pictures where you are clearly identifiable.
  7. Login and password will always be available to the parents.

These are “common sense” rules that are urged by law enforcement and online safety advocates.

3 Responses to “Online Communities”

  1. Anya Says:

    “If it were up to me, I’d implement these rules:
    1. No discussion of drug and alcohol abuse.”

    I just found this posting and am releaved that it’s not up to you.  Discussing these very issues is unavoidable when trying to help an addict/alcoholic to recover.

  2. Rossz Says:

    You misunderstood the rule.  It was meant as to what is appropriate behavior online.  Discussing when and where to party and what drugs and alcohol will be provided is not proper behavior for a 15 year old.  Discussing how bad drugs and alcohol are is an entirely different matter and should be encouraged.

    Ignoring a problem does not make it go away.  Knowing your child is planning an adventure of drugs and alcohol and doing nothing about it is child neglect in the eyes of the law.

  3. Anya Says:

    I did miss your point, my mistake.  We are in agreement then.

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